I just noticed I have a nest in my herb planter on my second floor deck.Ive had 2 doves every day on my balcony and the nest looks almost done.The only problem is my front door is on the same floor near the nest.I'm afraid we are going to scare the mother away every time we leave and come home. any suggestions?? I live in North Conway NH.I don't want to take a picture and scare her. They are so pretty!!